How to Argue With Your Man

All couples argue sometimes.  We my argue over big things such as rearing the kids or something small such  as what channel to watch on television. However your home shouldn't be a constant battle field. Healthy communication will help you two to grow closer as a couple.


Stand your ground --- Don't be afraid to voice your opinions.

What you think is as equally as important as what he is thinking.

Don't raise your voice

You can get your point across simply by letting him know what you are thinking or how you feel about the subject of the argument.

Don't say anything you might regret.

He may not forgive you for it.

Don't put your inlaws in the middle of the argument.

They don't know enough about what is going on. Your situation may not be the same as theirs.

Try to understand his point of view.

He may not have been raised with the same beliefs as yourself and you both may  have  different backgrounds. We don't all think alike. But we do have to try and understand each other.

Don't argue in the bedroom.

You may end up in bed without having resolved any issues.

Don't bring up any secrets that your mate has revealed to you.

You are no longer a close confidant. It will also erode real intimacy.

Apologize if you are wrong.

It is a sign of maturity and he may apologize as well.

If he is wrong, demand an apology.

He will respect you for it.

Try to come up with a resolution before walking away.

You will both feel better about the future of the relationship. Also you may be less inclined to do something you might regret.

Dinner Party Etiquette

Freshen Up

It is unsanitary to show up at a dinner party without having showered.

Don't Bring Friends Without Getting Permission

The host may have only made preparations for a certain amount of people.

Arrive on Time

Showing up is disrespectful and may hold up the festivities.


Bring Something to the Table

The host will appreciate it. And not only will you appear to be someone who has something to offer, they will remember you the next time they throw a party.

Introduce Yourself to the Other Guests

Besides from being rude, you don't want to appear to be unsociable. Also showing up in a bad disposition may bring down everyone elses cheerfulness.

Participate in the Festivities

You were invited to a party --- so why not!

Wait Until Everyone is Seated Before Eating

The rest of the guests may think that this is the only reason you showed up.

Watch Your Alcohol Intake

We should all be responsible adults. Never drink more than you can handle.

Don't Talk While Chewing Food

You may send food particles flying into someone elses plate and ruin their meal.

\Offer to Help Clean Up Afterwards

This is courteous and shows good manners

How to Keep Your Man From Leaving You for Another Woman

As a relationship progresses, we have the tendency to become comfortable. But, no relationship remains the same, The tips that I am about to give you, will help keep the fire burning.


Prepare His Favorite Dish

There's an old saying that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. This is still true. Cooking his favorite dish will not only help him to appreciate you a lot more, but it will also help spice things up in the bedroom.

Don't be too Available

 Woman who are too available appear uninteresting and desperate for love to the opposite sex. Give him a chance to miss you. If he really likes you, he will be happy to see you when he finally does.


Don't Give Him Everything He Wants

If you are there for his every beck and call, he may begin to feel as if he can't reciprocate and run away. Allow your man to get some of his needs met from someone else as long as he doesn't disrespect the relationship.  Besides, he may doubt your sincerity or leave you for someone who is more of a challenge.

Wear His Favorite Perfume

He will think of you every time he smells traces of it.

Let Him Know How Much You Love and Appreciate Him

Every once in a while, let him know how much he means to you by mentioning all the wonderful things that he does for you. Compliment his on his nice qualities. For example, if you noticed that he has a habit of holding the door open for woman, tell him how much of a gentleman he is.

Model Your Appearance After Other Woman

If you've noticed that your man has been glancing at blondes --- then maybe you should dye your if it is not the same color.

7 Mistakes Women Make When Dating the Opposite Sex

You spotted each other from across the room and couldn't take your eyes off each other. After a brief introduction, you agreed to go out on a date. Since then, you've been spending all your free time together. But, while you may have been bitten by the love bug ---you can ruin your chances of having a lasting love by making these mistakes.

Complaining

Women who constantly complain are perceived by men as witches. They also think you are too hard to please inorder for them to be happy with you.

Poor Hygiene Practices

Men will not always let you know that your grooming habits are not up to par. They may not want to hurt your feelings. However, the next time your man smiles when you to are talking, remember that it might not be because he thinks you don't know anything.

Poor Housekeeping

When you invite your new lover to your home, be sure there are no dirty dishes laying around in the sink or clothes scattered about the floor. He will think you are lazy and that you will neglect other areas of your life as well.

Neglecting Your Children

Men do not respect women who neglect their children. In his eyes, she is not a decent human being. Besides, he thinks, if she is unloving towards her own kids, she certainly dosen't have anything to offer me.

Weight Gain

After a woman has gained too much weight, a man may no longer find his mate desirable and may become resentful. He may also begin looking for someone else.

Gossiping

Women who gossip are looked upon by men as being conceited and untrustworthy.

Shouting

When a woman raises her voice during a conversation, a man may feel as if he is competing with his woman for his manhood. She is no longer feminine to him.

What is Your "Jean" Issue?

Needless to say---Everybody has his/her jeans and all jeans are not meant for everybody. This is obvious by the stares and comments we receive from other people when we wear them. I,  myself, have had some good responses and some not so good responses. on certain days the opposite sex will look at me as if I am the most delicious piece of meat they have ever seen. Whereas my female counterparts glare at me as if I need to go home and hide underneath the bed. When I put on one pair, I look lean and shapely. But in another pair, I look as if I have been pigging out on hot fudge sundaes. I suppose I could wear the same pair everyday. But then people would begin to look at me as if I need to take a bath. You just can't please them all! It was recently in the dressing room of a major department store when I came face to face with my jean issues. Confident that I had made the right decision, I walked away from the check-out counter with my head held high.

Clear Your Mind of Clutter: And Organize Your Home

Have you ever looked around your home or office and thought how did I allow this to happen? Suddenly aware of all the mess you've created. Disgusted by the hardwork and time it will take to get things back in order. Well, if you answered yes, you are probably like many Americans --- constantly preoccupied by some issue or another. If you have wondered if there is some correlation between your mental state and your environment --- the answer is yes. Sometimes it's just not enough to do our spring cleaning. A week or so later, the house is in the same condition as before we lifted a finger.We must go inside the crevices of our minds and pull out all the thoughts that we have been harboring that is keeping us from being productive and organized individuals. Once you become aware of your thoughts, come up solutions to your problems, and behave accordingly will you become more organized and intolerable of clutter in your home.

Home

Home is not just a place to go--- It is a great source of comfort and joy. It is also a reflection of who we are as individuals. A home can also be a private sanctuary or a place where we watch our children grow up. At home, we prepare and enjoy delicious meals with our families, we hang out with our close friends, or we may choose to spend a quiet day at home with our mate. Wherever you choose to live, whether it is a two-story house or a small apartment--- it is our foundation and where all good things begin.