Wednesday, November 28, 2012

How to Flirt With a Stranger




Smile

Smiling gives others the impression that you are friendly and approachable.

Make eye contact

Looking down, upward, and around the room while you are flirting gives the impression that you are afraid, too shy, or unsure of yourself.

Wait for the go ahead

Before approaching your admired, be sure that they are flirting back and appears to be comfortable with your advances.

Be confident

Don't stand in the background or deliver messages through friends. Make yourself known.

Show your personality

Don't use the same played out lines that your friends have been using or mimic your favorite movie star. Just be yourself. If you are the serious type, cut to the chase and ask for what you want or strike up a conversation about current events. And if you like to laugh and joke, introduce yourself by telling a joke. Got any new rhymes---hence the poetic type. Talk about yourself in a way that is interesting and unique.

Show off your distinguishing attributes

Maybe you have cute dimples, perfect white teeth, or big strong hands. There's nothing wrong with bringing this to the attention of the one you're flirting with. They will remember you for them.

Extend yourself

If you spot your new love interest in a restaurant having a meal,offer to buy them dessert. And, if they are having a drink at the bar, how about offering them a refill on what they are all ready sipping. You may end up having a discussion on the subject. If you notice they are laughing at your jokes, offer to take them to see the latest comedy at the local theatre.













Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Tips for Making Your Interacial Relationship Work



Relationships can be difficult to maintain. But interacial couples face challenges that same race couples don't. Here are some those issues and how to deal with them below.



Focus on your goals and common interests.

The fact that you don't share the same complexion, hair texture, or vocal cords is not what is important in your relationship. However, what does matter is whether or not you share some of the same hobbies and other interests.

Don't be intimidated by other people.

Not every one believes in interacial dating. But if you like each other and want to be together, you will ignore other people's comments and negative gestures. Hang out with and get to know other interacial couples.


Get to know your mate's culture.

You should enjoy learning new things about your mate such as who their ancestors are, their way of living, their way of doing things, and how they prepare their meals. One way to do this is by meeting and chatting with their family. doing so will help you get to know each other and help determine if you have a future together.

Respect each other's differences.

The things that are not the same is more than likely what attracted to you to each other. Resist picking fun of each other's temperaments and tolerance levels.

10 Reasons Why You Didn't Get a Second Date





Being impolite

Your mom taught you better. Those little things such as holding the door open, allowing your date to be seated before you sit down, and not eating off your date's plate can still get you a long way when you are trying to woo the opposite sex.

Bad Breath

Your date has to atleast be able to sit across from you to be able to get to know you.

Appearing uneducated

Your date can be turned off by you if you don't know what is going on in the world, mispronounce words, or use them out of context.

Being Cheap

Don't order the cheapest thing on the menu. Your date may think you have issues with self worth. Furthermore, do not take your date to the least expensive place in the neighborhood. They will think that you will skimp them in other ways if you are to get involved.

Being overly critical

You may think you are offering helpful suggestions. but the truth is your date dosen't know you well enough for your opionion to mean a whole lot. Also, they may think that they will have to work too hard to get and keep your approval in the future.

Bragging

Constantly talking about yourself will make your date wonder if you are really interested in getting to know them or if you just need someone else to help you feel good about yourself.

Lying

Once your date catches you in a lie, they cannot be sure what else you have lied about and how often you will lie in the fututre.

Constantly leaving the table

Your date will begin to think there is someone else who is more worthy of your time.

Being late

The above still applies.

Lack of common interests

Your date may not think that you don't have enough in common for them to continue to call.

Monday, November 26, 2012

Get Your Christmas Wish List Together




The holidays are here! And Christmas is fast approaching. We look foward to enjoying delicious food, seeing close family and friends, and exchanging and opening gifts. However, as we prepare our wish list we should be doing the folowing...

Remember what's most important to you.

Spending time with family and friends is a most precious gift that money cannot buy.

Don't be selfish.

Instead of focusing on all the things that you would like to receive, wish for world peace and the end of suffering.

Get your loved ones something they can really use.

We all know what we want, but when shopping for your loved ones, be sure that you think about what they may need as well as what they would want.

Really surprise someone this year.

There are many people who do not have close family or friends and are in need of love. It wouldn't hurt to give this individual a present for Christmas. They will remember you in the future.

Friday, November 16, 2012

10 Tips for Raising Healthy and Happy Children

image photo : Happy children peeling vegetables in kitchen



Talk to them about the opposite sex.

Prepare healthy meals and snacks.

Allow them to express themselves.

Hangout with them.

Get a routine going.

Give them room to make mistakes.

Don't be judgemental.

Pray together.

Set an example.

Get them involved in extrarricular activities.

Friday, October 26, 2012

How to Choose Your New Boss

image photo : Happy business man

Talk to former and current employees of the company that you want to work for. What do these people say about their bosses personality, work style, and the corporate culture? Do they perform the job duties for the position for which they applied?  Do top performers get rewarded and receive promotions? Also, ask former employees why they left the company and if they were able to find suitable employment afterwards. Observe their facial expression and demeanor as they answer the questions.

If possible,  meet your potential new boss in advance. When you see them, do they appear to be happy or angry? Do they speak and smile at other people? Notice their employees. Do they appear happy and satisfied or do the seem overworked or depressed?

When going into the office for the interview is the receptionist friendly? Does the boss smile when they see you or appear as if they are being bothered? Does the interview start on time?  Pay attention to your boss's interview style. Does he smile and ask you questions about your job skills and your plans for the future, or does he appear disinterested or distracted?

What to Look for When Choosing Your Child's Dentist

image photo : Girl Brushing Teeth

Visit the dentist office in advance of scheduling your child’s appointment. The office should be conveniently located in a nice, clean, busy, and safe neighborhood.

Once you enter the office, the receptionist should be warm and inviting as she greets you, as should the rest of the staff. And the office should be fresh, clean, and free of dust and clutter. The rooms should be well lit and the equipment should appear to be in good working condition. And, is the practice busy or is the staff just standing around?

Notice the people who are waiting. Do the parents appear to be happy and relaxed and the children sitting quietly or are they yelling and crying.

After you have decided on a dentist for your child, it is time to schedule the appointment. Does the receptionist sound friendly and happy, or does she sound upset?

On the day of your appointment, does your child have to wait for long periods of time although they have an appointment? An acceptable wait time is 15 minutes at the most. And once your child makes it to the back, there shouldn’t be lots of patients still waiting to be seen by the dentist. Never visit a dentist office in which you are not allowed to be with your child while they are being seen.

Does the staff member performing the work appear knowledgeable about the procedures and of the equipment or does it seem to be taking to long for them to get things situated?

After your child has seen the dentist, check the condition of their teeth. Does their mouth seem clean and free of cavities? If they can’t perform the work that your child needs, do they give you a referral?

Tuesday, September 25, 2012

How to Attract the Opposite Sex

image photo : Young couple drinking wine and flirting



Smile

Men are attracted to women who are warm and inviting. Smiling will let him know that this is who you are. Nothing turns a man off more than a woman who is constantly frowning.

Flirt

People who flirt often do a better job of attracting attention.

Wear clothing that complements your body type.

This will definitely draw the attention of a man who likes the way you look.

Exercise

This will definitely improve your body posture. It will also shape and tone your body.

Eat Healthy

Men like to see women whose grocery cart contains foods that are healthy and low in fat.

Hangout in places where men like to go.

You will stand a better chance of meeting a good catch by visiting places such as the museum, the zoo and other family oriented places.

Use correct body posture.

Men are attracted to woman who appear to be self-confident. So hold your head up and keep your back straight. Move as if you know you are sexy.

Wear sexy underwear.

You will feel more desireable and you will give off a sign that you have something more to offer.

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Beat The Holiday Blues





For many people the holidays are a joyous time of year. We get to spend time with family we haven't seen in a while, prepare and enjoy delicious dishes and participate in festivities. But, for many, the holidays can bring about feelings of sadness and pain. Not everyone has close family friends to enjoy the holiday with. However, you still don't have to sit at home feeling sorry for yourself. These tips will help get you through the holidays.

Turn off the stereo.

Don't listen to holiday songs about broken hearts and people sitting in front of the fireplace. You'll only end up feeling more depressed.

Accept others invitation for dinner.

If someone invites you over, don't turn them down. You might have a better time than you expect.

Throw a party.

Invite your coworkers and aquaintances. Ask them to bring their friends along. There's a chance that you will make new friends or meet your next sweetheart. If not, atleast you're not alone for awhile.

Rent funny movies.

Okay, maybe you really don't feel like being bothered. Watching funny movies will keep you laughing into the wee hours of the morning.

Read a good book.

Curling up under a good book canbe a wonderful experience. You'll feel as if you know the characters and get absorbed into what is happening.

Send your friends and colleagues a Christmas card.

Giving from the heart is one of the best cures for depression.


Don't over drink or use drugs.

You'll only end up feeling even worse.





Friday, September 7, 2012

Become Your Man's Slut AND Have a Happy Home

image photo : Couple laying on bed.

Dress sexy for your man while you are out.

He'll be turned on and eager to get back home to make love to you.

Allow him to undress you.

After sex, your man may want to be left alone for awhile. Don't lie around in bed waiting to see if he wants more. Put your clothes on and get busy doing other things.

Give him what he wants in bed.

As long as it's not sadistic or morally wrong, don't be afraid to ask your man if he is enjoying himself. Ask him about his like sand dislikes inside the bedroom. If he likes long hair, don't be too ashamed to wear some.

Wear sexy lingerie

He'll rush to rip it off of you.

Have an affair.

Meet your man at an agreed upon location and reintroduce yourself to him. Let him know how bad you want it.

Talk dirty on the telephone.

Tell your lover what he wants to hear. Let him know that you have been thinking about him and that you can't wait to make get your hands on him. Just make sure you can deliver.

Don't argue in the bedroom.

The bedroom should be reserved for relaxation and good times. Pick another room such as the den to hold discussions and have arguments.

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Single Mom's Tips for Managing Work and Home

image photo : Mother with baby.

Needless to say, it's not easy being a single mother. You have countless responsibilities and many people depending on you for advice and support. But, don't fret. There are some things you can do tomake your life alot easier.

Perform household chores at night.

During this time, the kids have begun to settle down after playing, arguing and fighting, and doing their homework. Things are less hectic and the house has quieted down.

Get plenty of rest.

Sleep helps to repair our bodies. Eight hours of sleep should be sufficient for you to wake up refreshed and ready to start the day.

Prepare meals in advance.

Prepare several dishes in advance to avoid having to cook after a hard days work. Food can be stored in storage-safe containers for up to three days.

Get to know your neighbors.

A trusted neighbor may keep an eye on your kids in the event that they make it home before you.

Choose your childcare providers wisely.

You can't function at work if you are worried about the way your child is being cared for. Before choosing a daycare or childcare provider, visit the center and take a look around. Use your intuition. Do you feel the staff is friendly and caring or just want to collect a paycheck?  Do you have a hard time walking off after you have left your children? Talk with the staff and teachers about their teaching styles, styles of discipline, and meals. Is the center nice and clean? Check for their credentials.

Set aside a time for family discussions.

This may be best done over meals. Talk to your children about their teachers, friends, homework, and their activities. You will show your kids that you love and care about them and decrease the likelihood that they will participate in self-destructive behavior.

Make sure that your contact numbers are up to date.

Your kids should know exactly how to reach you at work. And, so should their teachers incase of an emergency.

Save up money for emergencies.

You will have more peace of mind. You will also have more energy to focus on other things such as your children's soccer game or their high school prom.


Monday, July 30, 2012

Rules forTeenage Dating

image photo : Waiting for his date

Have your date pick you up at your home.

This way your family will be able to give him the once over. They may be more discerning than you are at this time.

Be sure to let your parents know where your date is taking you.

In the event that something happens, they will know where to look for you.

Checkout the condition of your dates car.

A messy car may give you a hint about his personality and lifestyle.

Don't dress to skimpy.

He may think you're easy and begin pressuring you for sex.

Don't drink or use drugs.

You or your date may end up doing something that you will regret. And, teenage drinking is one of the number one causes of teenage death.

Don't order the most expnsive thing on the menu.

He may think you're a gold digger.

Ask your date questions about himself and his interests.

It will show that you are interested in getting to know him.

At the end of the date, let him know if you had a great time.

It will increase the likelyhood of him calling you for a second date.

Call your date to make sure he made it home safe.

This is common courtesy.



Friday, July 6, 2012

How to Deal With Joblessness

image photo : Worried business man



Go on a Budget

Times are hard right now. But you can survive the economy. Create a list of all your debts and make arrangements to pay the ones that are most pressing. Pay the ones that can not be avoided such as rent and utilities immediately. Talk with your creditors about the ones that you cannot pay. Stay away from your favorite stores and restaurants. You may be tempted to spend more than you have right now. Money should be saved for food, clothes, and toiletries, etc.

Consider a New Career

Maybe you hated your last job as a technician and have always wanted to be a musician. Well, now is a good time to pursue your life long dream. Each day, do something that will bring you one step closer to accomplishing your career goals. If you don't have the necessary skills---consider taking classes or look for volunteer opportunities that may lead to a new position.

If you have already worked in your chosen field, keep your skill level up to part and stay abreast of what is going on in your industry.

Network

Find out where people who work in your field hang out. Check out the clubs and organizations in your townspecific to your occupation. If avaible, attend tradeshows, conferences, and work shops. Keep in touch with former coworkers. They may be able to offer you some assistance with your jobsearch.

Follow-up. Follow-up, Follow-up

Keep up with your job applications and contact information so that you can inquire about future job opportunities. Always send thank you notes after each job interview within a day or two after the interview. Get the names and telephone numbers of people that you have met while you were out job searching. They may be able to give you future job leads.

Keep Up Good Grooming Habits
You may not feel like doing much of anything sometimes. But first impressions are still lasting impressions. A potental employer will notice stained teeth, bad odors in your linen, and blood shot eyes. Also, make sure that your clothes are stylish and up to date.

Don't Give Up

You may get discouraged and feel depressed about your current situation. However, the future is only what you make of it. Better rewards later on than never. Your friends and family can be a great source of support and may also be able to help you along your career path.


Pray

We all need a helping hand from up above. It will help you to remain positive and give you a sense of peace.
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Monday, June 25, 2012

Clean Your Home in a Hurry

image photo : Clean the window


It may be safe to say we can begin by going into those deep, dark, dank places we hate cleaning the most. But go we must! Just be careful, you may wander into some pretty horrible things that may get in the way of you and a home that is actually clean. The scene of the crime---the kitchen and bathroom. The enemy---bacteria, germs, soap scum, mold, mildew and the like. But don't get discouraged. Put on those gloves and ball up your fist. I'll be there with you every step of the way.

Where to begin
The kitchen is where you will find germs and bacteria. So be sure to clean all surfaces including the refrigerator, dishwasher, kitchen counters, dish racks, and cutting boards with a  solution that kills germs and bacteria. An all-purpose cleaner that is made from natural ingredients is a good investment.  Don't use this solution in your dish water, it may contain harsh chemicals that might make you sick.  Clean the light fixtures and walls after cooking. Avoid using wall paper. It's a magnet for grease.

 While the solution is soaking, lets move on to the bathroom. Here you want to use a bathroom cleaner that gets rid of mold and mildew. The bathroom can be a breeding ground for mold and mildew because of its dark, wet nature. To help combat this problem, leave the windows open to let in sunshine and fresh air. Many stores sale shower curtains for around a buck or two that you can use in addition to your favorite shower curtain. You won't cry when its time to throw them away.

In the Middle of Things

While this solution is attacking the soapscum, germs, bacteria, mod and mildew in the bathroom, we can move on to a more enjoyable task. Let's pick up and sort the towels and clothing that have been lying around the floor and objects in the house and place them in the hamper. This is also a good time to dust the ceiling fans, windowsills, and  blinds in the home. Apply furniture polish directly to sponge or clean white rag to polish wood surfaces. A clean sponge can be used to wipe down glass. Use a long handles duster to go along the top of the walls to prevent spider webs. Sweep the corners of the floor to remove any dust are food particles that may have accumulated. Also, check under the sofa cushions and behind the furniture.  Children like to throw things in these spaces for some reason. It can help create roaches.

Heat Things Up

Wash comforters, sheets, comforters, blankets, pillows, and pillow cases in hot water to destroy bed bugs. (Spraying the mattresses and rooms with lysol can also help with this problem.) Have your clothing dry cleaned. Heat bobby pins, safety pins, combs and brushes over the stove to help prevent lice. Just make sure that these items are not too close to the fire. Wiping things up in the bathroom should be easy by now and kitchen should be simple now.



Cooling Things Down

Remove the containers from the refrigerator and put them in the tub to be cleaned. Set the temperature to 40 degrees fahrenheit to keep your food safe and fresh and your freezer to 0 degrees fahrenheit. Use storage containers to store items such as sugar, flour, and meal. Those made out of nonplastic materials such as glass, ceramic, stoneware, and aluminum are safest. These ingredients can spill onto the shelves and create roaches. Use old talc to help feshen your trash cans.  Use a light weight vaccum cleaner to vaccum the floors.

How to Make Love to Your Man

image photo : Close-up portrait of a couple

Make sure that your body is clean.

Foul orders will destroy the mood and turn your lover off.

Decorate the room with your favorite scented candles, incense, or lights.


This will help to set the mood for romance.

Play soothing music in the background.

It is conducive to a relaxing environment and will help to drown out mental chatter.

Give each other a massge with the oil of your choice.


Not only will it help you to relax, you'll get to know your partner's body.

Look your partner in the eyes.

It shows you are sincere about pleasing him and have nothing to hide. You will also be able to tell if you are pleasing them.

Get in sync with your partners body.

Try to match your partner's rhythm and movements. It they speed up, speed up with them. If they slow down, then slow down as well.

Pay attention to what turns your partner on.

Knowing what your partner enjoys in the bedroom will keep him coming back for more.

Thursday, June 21, 2012

Create Sacred Space

image photo : Drawing energy from sacred places



It can be hard to get a break from the stresses of everyday life. And when the world starts to wear us down, we need a place to retreat, relax, and recuperate. Perhaps you would like a nice, quiet place to meditate and pray. This is how you can create your sacred space.

Your sacred space should be a spot or rrom in the house away from noise and other distractions such as your husband, children, and outside noises such as cars going by.

Make sure your space is very clean and free of dust.

Decorate your space with art, figurines, incense, candles, and anything else that is sentimental to you.

let your family know that this space is off limits.

Attend to your space on a regular basis.

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

What Does Your Wardrobe Say About You?

Business man tie detailAt the barLong skirtJeansA red clothing girl of China

When you wear clothing that appeals to you and fits well, you automatically feel good, your posture improves, and you are more self-confident. So the next time you go shopping, ask yourself---what is my personality? When I go out, what do I want others to think about me? Will my attire convey this? Also, think about where you are going, the type of environment that you will be in, who will be there, whether you need to impress, and if you are comfortable.

How to Pick the Right Perfume

Applying Perfume 2

When entering a department store, we see lots of different fragrances to choose from, and most of them smell quite wonderful. But how do we choose the bottle that is right for us?  Ask yourself, who am I, or who would I like to become as you try it out. Also ask yourself, how do I feel or how would I like to feel? When trying to attract the opposite sex, ask yourself ---- what is it that I want my ideal partner to know about myself. perhaps you want him to know that you are wild, sensuous, or energetic. Give him a hintby choosing your scents accordingly.

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

How to Handle Rejection

You Got It! 2



Find out why you were rejected. There is a chance that it was something that can be easily corrected.

Determine if what you want is worth pursuining. If it is a job, think about whether or not you are a good fit for the position. If it is a lover, ask yourself if what he is finding fault with is something that you need to change.

Look elsewhere. Just because they rejected you dosen't mean that the next person will. Someone will aprreciate what you have to offer.

Step up Your Game. Don't just do what is required. Go the extra mile! you will be one up on the competition.

Tuesday, June 5, 2012

Is it Time for Your man to Go to the Dog House?

Reflective mood


Let's face it --- nobody is perfect. And the man in your life is no exception. Therefore, the question we must ask ourselves when he say or does something that will send us into high pissivity is whether or not his reedeming qualities will come thru before we kick him to the curb for good or if he just needs to be by himself for awhile. Mean while, here are a few things that your man should be doing before you let him come home.

He should be pinning away over losing your love.

If you are valuable to your man, he will be very upset about not being  able to see your face and not spending time with you. The idea of never seeing you again is unbearable.

He should be thinking about what a jerk he is.

He will hate himself for making you so upset. He will spend hours and days contemplating on how he will improve and win back your love.


He should be wondering what he will have to do to get you back.

Someone should be sending fresh flowers to your office very soon. Expect a greeting card in the mail. Or, an invitation from him to your favorite restaurant. Count on him making promises he can't keep. This is how bad he wants you back.

He should be thinking about all the ways the relationship can improve.

At this time he has probably been talking to his friends and family about the opposite sex in an effort to keep you if he gets you back.

He should be begging you for forgiveness and professing his undying love.

Expect the telephone to ring at odd times of the day or night. He can't think or be happy without you.

Monday, June 4, 2012

Presenting the Best Father Award


Kissing Daddy


A real father helps take care of his children. they provide them with the things they want and need such as food, clothes, and shelter.

A real father shows his children love and affectionby patting them on the back, by simply smiling at them, and telling them how much they love them. he may give them pet names such as sweet cheeks or stinky pooh.

A real father disciplines and punishes his children when necessary even if it hurts him inorder to help thme to grow into mature and responsible adults.

A real father lends his children his ear. His children can talk to him about their problems without being judged or cast away. He gives advice out of love and concern for your wellbeing. he may teach you how to play basketball, how to shave, or he may try to braid your hair.

A real father is not perfect. sometimes he make mistakes and unintentuionally do or say things that hurt his children. However, he will apologize and try not to do it again. And no matter what happens---they will always put you first.

And the nominnes are...

Simple Ways to Enhance Your Mood

Woman Eating Apple



While it is impossible to hold on to any emotional state for a very long time, there are some simple and inexpensive ways to create a positive mood.

Add a splash of color to your home. Decorative pillows and curtains are an excellent way to enhance your mood. Fresh flowers, plants, and scented candles are also a way to liven your senses. However, make sure that the items you purchase are brand new. Used items hold the previous owners energy and will affect the atmosphere in your home.

Add more fresh fruits and vegetables to your diet instead of rich fattening desserts. The internet and several book stores can offer you information about books featuring low-fat recipes using delicious fruits such as strawberries, kiwis, and blue berries to name a few. You will also decrease your risk for health problems including diabetes.

Eat baked meat and fresh vegetables instead of fried foods. You want feel guilty about your weight or ruining your health.

Wear clothes that compliment your complexion and your body type. You will look and feel more attractive and self-confident.

Complete a task that you have been putting off for awhile. You will feel a sense of accomplishment and be motivated to do even more.




Tuesday, May 29, 2012

How to Argue With Your Man

Couple lightly arguing



All couples argue sometimes.  We my argue over big things such as rearing the kids or something small such  as what channel to watch on television. However your home shouldn't be a constant battle field. Healthy communication will help you two to grow closer as a couple.


Stand your ground --- Don't be afraid to voice your opinions.

What you think is as equally as important as what he is thinking.

Don't raise your voice

You can get your point across simply by letting him know what you are thinking or how you feel about the subject of the argument.

Don't say anything you might regret.

He may not forgive you for it.

Don't put your inlaws in the middle of the argument.

They don't know enough about what is going on. Your situation may not be the same as theirs.

Try to understand his point of view.

He may not have been raised with the same beliefs as yourself and you both may  have  different backgrounds. We don't all think alike. But we do have to try and understand each other.

Don't argue in the bedroom.

You may end up in bed without having resolved any issues.

Don't bring up any secrets that your mate has revealed to you.

You are no longer a close confidant. It will also erode real intimacy.

Apologize if you are wrong.

It is a sign of maturity and he may apologize as well.

If he is wrong, demand an apology.

He will respect you for it.

Try to come up with a resolution before walking away.

You will both feel better about the future of the relationship. Also you may be less inclined to do something you might regret.

Dinner Party Etiquette


Starter, Main Course And Dessert




Freshen Up

It is unsanitary to show up at a dinner party without having showered.

Don't Bring Friends Without Getting Permission

The host may have only made preparations for a certain amount of people.

Arrive on Time

Showing up is disrespectful and may hold up the festivities.


Bring Something to the Table

The host will appreciate it. And not only will you appear to be someone who has something to offer, they will remember you the next time they throw a party.

Introduce Yourself to the Other Guests

Besides from being rude, you don't want to appear to be unsociable. Also showing up in a bad disposition may bring down everyone elses cheerfulness.

Participate in the Festivities

You were invited to a party --- so why not!

Wait Until Everyone is Seated Before Eating

The rest of the guests may think that this is the only reason you showed up.

Watch Your Alcohol Intake

We should all be responsible adults. Never drink more than you can handle.

Don't Talk While Chewing Food

You may send food particles flying into someone elses plate and ruin their meal.

\Offer to Help Clean Up Afterwards

This is courteous and shows good manners

Wednesday, May 23, 2012

How to Keep Your Man From Leaving You for Another Woman

As a relationship progresses, we have the tendency to become comfortable. But, no relationship remains the same, The tips that I am about to give you, will help keep the fire burning.


Prepare His Favorite Dish

There's an old saying that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. This is still true. Cooking his favorite dish will not only help him to appreciate you a lot more, but it will also help spice things up in the bedroom.

Don't be too Available

 Woman who are too available appear uninteresting and desperate for love to the opposite sex. Give him a chance to miss you. If he really likes you, he will be happy to see you when he finally does.


Don't Give Him Everything He Wants

If you are there for his every beck and call, he may begin to feel as if he can't reciprocate and run away. Allow your man to get some of his needs met from someone else as long as he doesn't disrespect the relationship.  Besides, he may doubt your sincerity or leave you for someone who is more of a challenge.

Wear His Favorite Perfume

He will think of you every time he smells traces of it.

Let Him Know How Much You Love and Appreciate Him

Every once in a while, let him know how much he means to you by mentioning all the wonderful things that he does for you. Compliment his on his nice qualities. For example, if you noticed that he has a habit of holding the door open for woman, tell him how much of a gentleman he is.

Model Your Appearance After Other Woman

If you've noticed that your man has been glancing at blondes --- then maybe you should dye your if it is not the same color.

Monday, May 21, 2012

7 Mistakes Women Make When Dating the Opposite Sex

You spotted each other from across the room and couldn't take your eyes off each other. After a brief introduction, you agreed to go out on a date. Since then, you've been spending all your free time together. But, while you may have been bitten by the love bug ---you can ruin your chances of having a lasting love by making these mistakes.

Complaining

Women who constantly complain are perceived by men as witches. They also think you are too hard to please inorder for them to be happy with you.

Poor Hygiene Practices

Men will not always let you know that your grooming habits are not up to par. They may not want to hurt your feelings. However, the next time your man smiles when you to are talking, remember that it might not be because he thinks you don't know anything.

Poor Housekeeping

When you invite your new lover to your home, be sure there are no dirty dishes laying around in the sink or clothes scattered about the floor. He will think you are lazy and that you will neglect other areas of your life as well.

Neglecting Your Children

Men do not respect women who neglect their children. In his eyes, she is not a decent human being. Besides, he thinks, if she is unloving towards her own kids, she certainly dosen't have anything to offer me.

Weight Gain

After a woman has gained too much weight, a man may no longer find his mate desirable and may become resentful. He may also begin looking for someone else.

Gossiping

Women who gossip are looked upon by men as being conceited and untrustworthy.

Shouting

When a woman raises her voice during a conversation, a man may feel as if he is competing with his woman for his manhood. She is no longer feminine to him.

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

What is Your "Jean" Issue?

Closeup of fit boy in blue jeans



Needless to say---Everybody has his/her jeans and all jeans are not meant for everybody. This is obvious by the stares and comments we receive from other people when we wear them. I,  myself, have had some good responses and some not so good responses. on certain days the opposite sex will look at me as if I am the most delicious piece of meat they have ever seen. Whereas my female counterparts glare at me as if I need to go home and hide underneath the bed. When I put on one pair, I look lean and shapely. But in another pair, I look as if I have been pigging out on hot fudge sundaes. I suppose I could wear the same pair everyday. But then people would begin to look at me as if I need to take a bath. You just can't please them all! It was recently in the dressing room of a major department store when I came face to face with my jean issues. Confident that I had made the right decision, I walked away from the check-out counter with my head held high.

Monday, May 14, 2012

Clear Your Mind of Clutter: And Organize Your Home





Empty office



Have you ever looked around your home or office and thought how did I allow this to happen? Suddenly aware of all the mess you've created. Disgusted by the hardwork and time it will take to get things back in order. Well, if you answered yes, you are probably like many Americans --- constantly preoccupied by some issue or another. If you have wondered if there is some correlation between your mental state and your environment --- the answer is yes. Sometimes it's just not enough to do our spring cleaning. A week or so later, the house is in the same condition as before we lifted a finger.We must go inside the crevices of our minds and pull out all the thoughts that we have been harboring that is keeping us from being productive and organized individuals. Once you become aware of your thoughts, come up solutions to your problems, and behave accordingly will you become more organized and intolerable of clutter in your home.


















Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Home

Home is not just a place to go--- It is a great source of comfort and joy. It is also a reflection of who we are as individuals. A home can also be a private sanctuary or a place where we watch our children grow up. At home, we prepare and enjoy delicious meals with our families, we hang out with our close friends, or we may choose to spend a quiet day at home with our mate. Wherever you choose to live, whether it is a two-story house or a small apartment--- it is our foundation and where all good things begin.