Wednesday, November 28, 2012

How to Flirt With a Stranger




Smile

Smiling gives others the impression that you are friendly and approachable.

Make eye contact

Looking down, upward, and around the room while you are flirting gives the impression that you are afraid, too shy, or unsure of yourself.

Wait for the go ahead

Before approaching your admired, be sure that they are flirting back and appears to be comfortable with your advances.

Be confident

Don't stand in the background or deliver messages through friends. Make yourself known.

Show your personality

Don't use the same played out lines that your friends have been using or mimic your favorite movie star. Just be yourself. If you are the serious type, cut to the chase and ask for what you want or strike up a conversation about current events. And if you like to laugh and joke, introduce yourself by telling a joke. Got any new rhymes---hence the poetic type. Talk about yourself in a way that is interesting and unique.

Show off your distinguishing attributes

Maybe you have cute dimples, perfect white teeth, or big strong hands. There's nothing wrong with bringing this to the attention of the one you're flirting with. They will remember you for them.

Extend yourself

If you spot your new love interest in a restaurant having a meal,offer to buy them dessert. And, if they are having a drink at the bar, how about offering them a refill on what they are all ready sipping. You may end up having a discussion on the subject. If you notice they are laughing at your jokes, offer to take them to see the latest comedy at the local theatre.













Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Tips for Making Your Interacial Relationship Work



Relationships can be difficult to maintain. But interacial couples face challenges that same race couples don't. Here are some those issues and how to deal with them below.



Focus on your goals and common interests.

The fact that you don't share the same complexion, hair texture, or vocal cords is not what is important in your relationship. However, what does matter is whether or not you share some of the same hobbies and other interests.

Don't be intimidated by other people.

Not every one believes in interacial dating. But if you like each other and want to be together, you will ignore other people's comments and negative gestures. Hang out with and get to know other interacial couples.


Get to know your mate's culture.

You should enjoy learning new things about your mate such as who their ancestors are, their way of living, their way of doing things, and how they prepare their meals. One way to do this is by meeting and chatting with their family. doing so will help you get to know each other and help determine if you have a future together.

Respect each other's differences.

The things that are not the same is more than likely what attracted to you to each other. Resist picking fun of each other's temperaments and tolerance levels.

10 Reasons Why You Didn't Get a Second Date





Being impolite

Your mom taught you better. Those little things such as holding the door open, allowing your date to be seated before you sit down, and not eating off your date's plate can still get you a long way when you are trying to woo the opposite sex.

Bad Breath

Your date has to atleast be able to sit across from you to be able to get to know you.

Appearing uneducated

Your date can be turned off by you if you don't know what is going on in the world, mispronounce words, or use them out of context.

Being Cheap

Don't order the cheapest thing on the menu. Your date may think you have issues with self worth. Furthermore, do not take your date to the least expensive place in the neighborhood. They will think that you will skimp them in other ways if you are to get involved.

Being overly critical

You may think you are offering helpful suggestions. but the truth is your date dosen't know you well enough for your opionion to mean a whole lot. Also, they may think that they will have to work too hard to get and keep your approval in the future.

Bragging

Constantly talking about yourself will make your date wonder if you are really interested in getting to know them or if you just need someone else to help you feel good about yourself.

Lying

Once your date catches you in a lie, they cannot be sure what else you have lied about and how often you will lie in the fututre.

Constantly leaving the table

Your date will begin to think there is someone else who is more worthy of your time.

Being late

The above still applies.

Lack of common interests

Your date may not think that you don't have enough in common for them to continue to call.

Monday, November 26, 2012

Get Your Christmas Wish List Together




The holidays are here! And Christmas is fast approaching. We look foward to enjoying delicious food, seeing close family and friends, and exchanging and opening gifts. However, as we prepare our wish list we should be doing the folowing...

Remember what's most important to you.

Spending time with family and friends is a most precious gift that money cannot buy.

Don't be selfish.

Instead of focusing on all the things that you would like to receive, wish for world peace and the end of suffering.

Get your loved ones something they can really use.

We all know what we want, but when shopping for your loved ones, be sure that you think about what they may need as well as what they would want.

Really surprise someone this year.

There are many people who do not have close family or friends and are in need of love. It wouldn't hurt to give this individual a present for Christmas. They will remember you in the future.

Friday, November 16, 2012

10 Tips for Raising Healthy and Happy Children

image photo : Happy children peeling vegetables in kitchen



Talk to them about the opposite sex.

Prepare healthy meals and snacks.

Allow them to express themselves.

Hangout with them.

Get a routine going.

Give them room to make mistakes.

Don't be judgemental.

Pray together.

Set an example.

Get them involved in extrarricular activities.