Smile
Smiling gives others the impression that you are friendly and approachable.
Make eye contact
Looking down, upward, and around the room while you are flirting gives the impression that you are afraid, too shy, or unsure of yourself.
Wait for the go ahead
Before approaching your admired, be sure that they are flirting back and appears to be comfortable with your advances.
Be confident
Don't stand in the background or deliver messages through friends. Make yourself known.
Show your personality
Don't use the same played out lines that your friends have been using or mimic your favorite movie star. Just be yourself. If you are the serious type, cut to the chase and ask for what you want or strike up a conversation about current events. And if you like to laugh and joke, introduce yourself by telling a joke. Got any new rhymes---hence the poetic type. Talk about yourself in a way that is interesting and unique.
Show off your distinguishing attributes
Maybe you have cute dimples, perfect white teeth, or big strong hands. There's nothing wrong with bringing this to the attention of the one you're flirting with. They will remember you for them.
Extend yourself
If you spot your new love interest in a restaurant having a meal,offer to buy them dessert. And, if they are having a drink at the bar, how about offering them a refill on what they are all ready sipping. You may end up having a discussion on the subject. If you notice they are laughing at your jokes, offer to take them to see the latest comedy at the local theatre.
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