Picking fun of other
people
Doing so is tantamount to rejecting someone or some part of
who they are. However, we are all interconnected and are capable of falling
short of who we think we are or who we would like to be. Ever find yourself
wondering how someone could do such a thing? Your higher power could very well
grant you the opportunity to find out. So next time someone does something that
irks you, make a mental note not to behave in the same way. But, resist the
urge to put them down. Besides, they could have very good reasons for being the
way they are.
Being pessimistic
You probably know one of these people, unfortunately. They
never have anything positive to say. When people ask them who they are, they
can never really come up with anything wonderful or unique to say. If you haven’t
taken the time to discover your own good qualities, why should anyone else.
Thus these people miss out on new opportunities such as the chance to make new
friends or receive their dream job. When things appear to be going their way, they continue to dwell on the calamities that they expect to come to pass. And, this is even if the worst never happens. However, many times they manage to stay afloat. But magnificent blessings always seem to elude them.
Procrastinating
Many people have been guilty of letting opportunities go by
as they come up with one excuse or another for not handling their business. To their
dismay, when they feel they are ready to move forward the opportunity is gone.
First ask yourself if you welcome the opportunity to get what you want or need
or if you are afraid to succeed. Just remember that you may never get the
opportunity again.
Not letting go
Sometimes we have to give up on something in order to get
something else. The good news is that when your higher power takes something
away from us, he replaces it with something even better. Choosing not to
relinquish those things or people who are no longer right for us can only leave
us in limbo.
Being dishonest
This is akin to a new driver behind a steering wheel. The
ride is never smooth. The driver struggles to stay within the lines, afraid to
stop, but afraid to move forward. However, to their delight the ride gets a lot
easier---only to sometimes find that they have run into a dead end road. When
people are unable to tell the truth about what they want or need, they always
have a desire to do something other than what they are already doing. It is not
the same as the grass appearing greener on the other side---they can’t shake
the feeling that something is severely missing form their life. They can’t move
forward, but they can’t continue doing what they have been doing either. The
result is confusion and inner turmoil. Only and only when they can admit the
truth about what they want can they begin to find true happiness.
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