Why Do I Want It So Much?

Sex can be a wonderful experience for many people. But, as good as sex can feel, the hangover is not always sweet. What do you do when your relationships always end on a bitter note? Does the after taste stick to you like a piece of bitter sweet chocolate lingering on your tongue? These tips will help you to pick up the pieces and move on to finding lasting love and intimacy.

 

Don’t mistake sex for love

Many women attempt to measure how much their mate loves them by the amount of time they spend having intercourse. But, unless you two share some genuine, warm feelings for each other, you are no closer to finding lasting love than a bird trying to fly without wings.

Men are often excited about and enjoy having sex with different women. So, just because he’s in a good mood or performs very well doesn’t mean he has feelings for you conducive to a serious, love relationship.

 

Don’t think sex can substitute for love

Remember Romancing the Stone. In this movie, the leading stars appear to have loving feelings toward each other, although they are constantly on the verge of killing each other. You don’t want your romance to leave you with emotional repercussions. Nor do you want a tragedy. It’s okay to try and keep thinks heated in the bedroom. But, if your mate is not spending quality time with you outside of this area, you may want to keep your options open.

 

Don’t ignore the way you feel

Lots of people, because of the way they perceive their childhood experiences, grow up feeling as if they are unlovable or incapable of being loved. These people can’t stand their own company because they don’t like themselves very much. As a result, they try to keep as many people around them as possible. However, unfortunately, they often are drawn to people who will ultimately abandon them or break their hearts in some other way.

 

Don’t neglect other areas of your life

Sex cannot replace your career, children, money, friends, or a good mate. Balance is the key. Your romantic life is only a small piece of the pie. Doing so will keep sex from meaning so much that it becomes detrimental to your emotion, physical, and emotional well being.